She is My Everything
Written by Ziyanda
Letters
Dear Becky,
i found out i was pregnant 28 april 2009. i was only 17 and in my first year of university. i was so lost, sad and confused. all i could think about was how i was going to get myself out of the situation. i cried myself to sleep thinking i had let myself and my parents down. life was just miserable. the first person i told was my boyfriend. he said he'd support me in whatever i decided. just the thought of being a mom at 17 made me fill so sad.
i knew nothing about babies and felt i wasnt capable of being a mother. i wrote to a member of stand up girl who advised me to keep my baby. i decided to take her advice. right there and then i decided i was going to keep my baby because i read stories of girls who terminated their pregnancies and they were all feeling so down.i carried on with school even though i was pregnant. people teased me and passed snorty comments and ugly stares at me. it broke my heart but i tried to stay strong.
on december,18 i had a baby girl. after she let out her first cry i knew i had done the right thing, all that i went through was worth it. i cant stop admiring her toothless smile. her eyes bring me peace and absolute joy. she is my everything.
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written by my babys my world , June 08, 2010
I am very glad you kept your baby, Im 14 and I am keeping my baby, I love him very much! written by will.i.am , June 13, 2010
written by hollyann_13 , June 14, 2010
written by NataliesMom , June 18, 2010
but yes i am very happy you kept your baby. written by emilie , June 21, 2010
How do you manage financially?
I'm asking because I will also be a mother soon and I don't have an education. My fiance is a chef but doesnt earn that much. What type of jobs do you do?
Good luck with everything,
Em
written by teenmummy2008 , July 11, 2010
i was 15 when i fell pregnant and 16 when i had my son. I don't agree with abortions unless the baby wouldn't have any chance of surviving birth for medical reasons or wouldn't survive their first birthday. I think too many teenagers rely on abortions they see it as a quick way out but what they don't realise is they have to live with it for the rest of their lives and probably will regret it. I think it's great teenagers can look up to other teenagers who kept their babies and managed to survive and the baby is leading a happy and healthy life.
written by kayee88 , July 18, 2010
written by CookieD16 , July 19, 2010
written by missbeautygurl , July 27, 2010
i was 15 when i got pregnant and i turned 16 when i found out, i kept her cuz i didnt believe in abortions and i still dont but when i saw my baby girl, i knew she was the best little girl that happen in my life, im still only 16 soon 17 Being a mom is tough but its worth it in a long run 
written by Beautiful-pearl , July 31, 2010
and it thinking bout the frist cry my child has the first food the first steps it makes me excited for having my baby and i no that i don't regret keeping my baby
written by mayu , August 24, 2010
God bless! 
"You have to be brave -- the one who speaks out for a baby -- so she or he can come into this life."
~Amber~