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Sep 02
2010

sum up my life/pregnancy

Posted by jelly_belly10 in Untagged 

jelly_belly10

where do i start........
well my name is Genevie(incase ur having problems sayin it like most ppl do,say it like this "Gena-V".ha)I'm 18 years and just graduated from high school this year,Class of 2010'.I'm pregnant with my little girl Devin,that is expected to enter this world in Nov.18=] I been a taken women since Dec.6,2008=]
I been engaged since april of 2009 with my fiance Jason.
who is also 18 years old.
We got engaged after being together for only about 4 months.We didnt have the best relationship at first because well....we met over the internet and never met in person and plus he lived about 2 1/2 hours away from me.so the long distance relationship and the thought of never meeting,ended us.,so he stopped talkin to me and i didnt bother talkin to him either.After not talkin for a couple weeks we got back together but it was still hard being apart with someone your going out with and to point out we still never met each other in person yet.so we had problems with that and it ended again but this time we ended cuz of miscommunication and got back together two days later and the next day after getting back together,we met at knotts berry farm:]It was one of the best days of my life meeting Jason that day:](that was back in march when we met.)Then when he came to visit me in my city,was the second time we met in person and was also when he proposed to me.:]
we didnt have the perfect relationship at first but now were stronger then ever.
My Fiance is in the army,he's been in it for almost two years in nov. and has four more years to go.So to top it off with dealing with our long distance relationship,we also deal with the Army life.Dealing with, all this would make any girl go crazy and want to end it but it only made our relationship stronger.We both learned how to make sacrifices for this relationship to work and to have trust with one another at all times.With all these different situations in our lifes,we made it work:]it wasnt easy but we did it.
we currently live with my mom and siblings and soon to be our bby girl Devin.Being pregnant at 18,i never pictured myself being a mom anytime soon but it happened and even though i dont feel ready to be a mom yet,i better be ready cuz my baby will be here soon.As hard as life is right now,I know i'm not alone,i have support from my fiance and family<3
So i know when Devin arrives everything will be o.k.
Everyday Daddy and mommy are trying to make life better for you when you arrive bby girl.:]

Aug 30
2010

i need help im only 3-4weeks pregnant and i need help for you people

Posted by hollym12 in Untagged 

hollym12

i need some one to help me im only 3-4 weeks and im very scard im only 17teen and im still in my parents house some one pleas help me today im very scard dont know what to do someone who knows pleas help very soon

Aug 28
2010

2nd letter to my baby girl

Posted by Beautiful-pearl in Untagged 

Beautiful-pearl

Hey baby girl,

Since i got pregnant, my lifes changed emotionaly, physically, and socialy. To some people my lifes is already messed up and that i have no future. I wanted to say princess that my life has changed but not for the worst. But for the best. My baby girl you can't imagine how much i love you. If theirs 1 thing that i don't regret is the choice i made of keeping you. You haven't messed my life up not even for a second, you only bring joy to me. Your the reason why im trying hard and school and have a motive for succeeding in life. without you. I don't know how life will be. When i walked into the doctors room to do my utra sound and he put a blue cold gell on mommys belly my heart started to race and a smile appraed on my face. Then the doctor showed me you. I almost cried in front of the doctor. I looked at you and i though. God how did i mack such a perfect angel. I saw your nose and your hands and your face. perfect. I saw your little feet and i heart your heart beat. It was better then music, much, much, much better. Songs get old after listening to the same song over and over and over againe. But your heart beat was something that was never going to get old. It's a noise that i will always treasure. 

I couldn't stop looking at my Little princess. 

Aug 27
2010

well,

Posted by nicolio in Untagged 

nicolio

i am 17 years old. my Braylin Chase is due very soon, October 4th. i can't wait to hold him and love him. at least i know i'll never have to worry about being alone again. he'll be the one lil man i know will always be there. FOB does not speak to me because he is still in love with me and will not do anything but argue with me even when i try just talking about the baby. i'm not in love with him so i'm not gonna put myself through a lifetime of unhappiness because everyone THINKS that we should be together solely because it would be easier for us to raise Braylin. he hasn't offered to help out one bit with his son except for the fact that he wants to see him some. that's all he has interest in is seeing him. it takes more than that to be  father. i do have a boyfriend but i am terribly afraid he will leave me after Braylin gets here. but unfortunately there's no way for me to prevent myself from getting hurt because i won't know the answer until Braylin gets here in October. My grandmother isthe only person in my family that is helping support meand Braylin. i so terribly wish i were married and had a job so i could take care and provide for my son but i have no job and no income so i'm at a loss of what to do right now and it doesn't help that no one in my town has accepted my application for a job. i can always try again after he gets here but i dunno if anything will have changed by then. i've applied everywhere available.

well this is my story.

Aug 26
2010

my story.. tell me yours..or what you think

Posted by katiebuggs 13 in Untagged 

katiebuggs 13

hey girls!! im 17 my husband is 20 we have been together for 4 year... from the time i was 15 all i want was to be a mom doctors told me it was impossible.. in Dec of 2009 i got pregnant i lost my baby at 3 week it was bad and it hurt so i drank i help with the pain in Feb. of 2010 i stopped drinking because i missed my period well i took the test and it said neg. well on my brothers birthday in march i still had not had it so i took 5 preg. test they were all said yes. so i was scared that i would lost that baby to i went to the doctor every thing was good baby was growing and everything... things got better for me til i was 4 months pregnant my husband lost his job. my mom moved out.. i felt alone.. when i was 5 months he found another job.. then i was put on bed rest i have a high risk pregnancy i am now 6 an a half months pregnant  my son is my everything... he will be born Dec 1 2010 i have to have a c-section..i spend the weekend with my mom and her new husband!! my husband and i are very lucky that we were able to get pregnant because all the doctors said it was impossible.. tell me you story or what you think of mine i really want other teen moms to talk to so lets talk

Aug 24
2010

Life so crazy already+6months pregnant and in college.

Posted by brii23 in Untagged 

brii23

Im 19.I am in college at U of M.Im a med student.All thats great right?Heres the kicker.Im 6 months pregnant.I got pregnant from rape.My boyfriend is on the older side,and my dad is sooo tripping.lol.what can I do.I love this baby so much already!I am having a little girl.Due november 23rd.

Aug 22
2010

letter to my unborn baby

Posted by nevershoutmango in Untagged 

nevershoutmango

dear baby,

its me, your mommy. im sorry that i did such a horrible thing to you. i knew that you and me were connected the moment i saw that little blue plus sign. i remember everytime me and daddy would fight,  i would cry, and i knew you cried with me because my stomach hurt. and when i would laugh, you laughed with me because my stomach had butterflies. i know you hate your daddy, because he didnt want you. i wanted you, you know i did. but i was being pressured and you know your mommys not good under pressure like your daddy is. sometimes, when i get stomach cramps, or i get nascious, or i take a long soothing nap, i still think you're in my tummy, waiting to surprise me each day. i wanted to see you at the clinic, when they did that ultrasound. i wanted to know if you were mommys little boy, or girl. you would've been Audrianna or Daniella, or Malik or Caden or Skyler. me and you would've been the best of friends. we would've had so much fun, me watching you grow each week, devolping fingers and toes. who would you look like: me or daddy? how would you sound when you laughed or cried? how would you hold my finger. i wonder every day about those things and i cant stand what i did to you because i know it hurt. but it also hurt me. i just want to let you that i love you, i love you soooooo much i cant describe it. when im 24 or 25 or 26, we'll meet someday, and you'll open your little eyes and i'll smile at your cute face. i miss you and i havent forgotten you. im sorry. i am.

                                                                                   Love, Mommy.

Aug 22
2010

HELP please?

Posted by casii in Untagged 

casii
I need everyones thoughts on this because I can't take a pregnancy test until at least the beginning of September. So if you could comment this er something and let me know whether you think i might be pregnant or not, please? because I wanna make sure if you guys think I am that i stop doing all the bad things, yeah know?
I'm 15 and the boy is 18 :)
Alright so heres the story: Me and this guy started talking around 2 years ago because my moms best friends son was best friends with him, okay thats confusing hahaha, but then last summer we finally hungout mostly alone and ended up just talking about stuff&we ended up kissing.
Since then we talked off and on.
This past May he was at my friends birthday party, hes her cousin, and we ended up leaving the party for a bit to go talk about stuff. We decided that we both felt something big every time we hangout, the only thing is...he has a girlfriend, but hes only with her because shes 21 :/ but still. 
Anyways one night we were partying together along with all our friends and went swimming in the river&he asked me to stay at his house with our two other friends and obviously i said yes. When we got to his house we showered together&yeah you know the rest :P
After neither of us could sleep, but our 2 friends were already asleep when we got outa the shower, so we just sat there and talked to literally 4 hours straight :)
This summer we were always together and had been having sex(unprotected since I'm on birth control). At the end of July, right before i got grounded(i justt got off) we had sex, unprotected like always, but i hadnt been taking my birth control for a week because i forgot it when we all went camping. 
So now i've missed my period kinda, i've had light spotting.
and i've also: 
  • Had nausea/stomach pain, usually at night
  • Been nauseous when i smelled certain foods, even my usual favorites.
  • Been peeing a ton
  • Had breast tenderness, like its sore to wear a bra
  • Had heartburn I think
Aug 22
2010

Update 2

Posted by Allaquinn in Untagged 

Allaquinn

21 weeks

It's been awhile since my last update. Bubby has been kicking since the 15th week and I found out last week that I'm having a baby boy. Things still haven't improved between my baby's dad and I but I am starting to get used to the fact that we will never get back together, despite the fact that he says he loves me. He has had nothing to do with bub at all, hasn't helped with stuff for bub and the nursery, and is still telling people that it isn't his baby. I have had to pay for all of the things I have gotten for baby, had to do cleaning and shopping and he has been no help at all. He expects me to do everything. I seriously doubt we will be living in the same house for much longer. I have decided to call our son Kieran Xavier. He is so gorgeous. At the ultrasound last week he was kicking the scanning wand away and hiding from the cameras. And he flashed Nathaniel to show him he was a boy! Morning sickness still hasn't passed so looks like it is something I will have to put up with. Along with back, rib and stomach pain, major hormone changes, high blood pressure and prenatal depression. I really can't wait until it is time for Kieran to be born. But things aren't easy, I am finding it hard to find baby items that I need and there is only 4 and a half months left. Plus I still have to finish planning my baby shower which is about 2 and a half months away. I still havent even found a new house and I have to start doing that soon if I am going to have a place for me and Kieran to live when he is born. He really is everything to me and I am so glad there was never serious doubt as to whether or not I would keep him. My life has changed so much but I believe it is for the better because he has given me so much purpose

Aug 21
2010

is this it?

Posted by nevershoutmango in Untagged 

nevershoutmango

is this really how it feels?its been 1 month since that abortion...i miss her with everything i am. i know i was too early to find out the sex of my baby, but im certain its a girl. my life has been sooooo rough since then. my ex boyfriend runing my life telling my boyfriend now a whole bunch of crap. my parents the other night got so drunk, and hit me and my sister, and my boyfriend took me to his house(thank god.) DCFS might take me and my sister away...i dont want that to happen. school has started and i have NO FRIENDS in my classes so i sit in the back of class, wondering, thinking about my baby. since my friend robin has also gone through the same thing, we asked our social worker to put her in my classes since her reading teacher is pregnant. i honestly cant take the struggle here at home, i cant take the struggle in class...is this it?is this how it feels to suffocate? times like these, i wish i had my baby back...


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