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So I had an abortion, 14th april, I was just under 18 weeks at the time. It was probably the hardest thing I've ever done, and didnt get a lot of support from my friends. I didnt want to tell my boyfriend as I wouldnt want to lose him over it. Sometimes it hurts so bad I cry, I wish i could hold my baby just once, Im trying to stay strong and sort my life out so I can raise a baby properly, I know it wasnt the right time to have my baby right now but it still hurts sometimes. My baby would have been born this month. It would be nice to talk to people who have gone through the same as me :)
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written by Beautiful-pearl , July 28, 2010
Hi i waz considerting having an abortion. Im 14 years old and entering high school. Nobody waz supportive of me having the baby not even my freinds all of them thought the best thing to do was have an abortion but then again its easy for them to say because their not the ones having the baby and their not the ones suffering. and even my ex boyfriend the baby daddy told me to do it. But i don't know if i could tho.
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written by Beautiful-pearl , July 31, 2010
u must be a strong girl to have put your baby for abortion. When i found out i was you know going to have a baby i was scared to i told the baby daddy and he told me to get an abortion and really i was just about to. But then i don't know what got over me i couldn't do it i couldn't do it. I don't know if it was fear or what it was but when i was bout to give in to the idea of abortion i know i wanted to keep my baby
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written by bernardette.x , August 01, 2010
hi,
i had an abortion at 15 weeks 3 days, i had the support from my boyfriend but not my mum. who forced me into it.
my friends didnt know.
it was just before my 16th birthday when i found out.
last month it was two years since i lost my baby. and the last two years have been a mess for me. i even tried to take my own life on what would of been my baby's first birthday. didnt get me anywhere apart from 15 hours in hospital and having to eat coal to clear my system.
i still get upset now dont get me wrong. i think about my baby everyday! i would do anything to turn back time and change things.
but over time darling you learn to deal with it. everything becomes better with time whether you decide to believe me or not it does (i didnt believe anyone when they told me)
take everyday as it comes sweetheart, that was how i coped.
im here if you EVER want to talk.
b x
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i had an abortion at 15 weeks 3 days, i had the support from my boyfriend but not my mum. who forced me into it.
my friends didnt know.
it was just before my 16th birthday when i found out.
last month it was two years since i lost my baby. and the last two years have been a mess for me. i even tried to take my own life on what would of been my baby's first birthday. didnt get me anywhere apart from 15 hours in hospital and having to eat coal to clear my system.
i still get upset now dont get me wrong. i think about my baby everyday! i would do anything to turn back time and change things.
but over time darling you learn to deal with it. everything becomes better with time whether you decide to believe me or not it does (i didnt believe anyone when they told me)
take everyday as it comes sweetheart, that was how i coped.
im here if you EVER want to talk.
b x
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written by Kumarie , August 03, 2010
You cant change the past and the mistakes and wrong decisions you have made but you can change your future and learn from them.
I want to encourage you and bernardette.x ... to forgive yourselves. You'll had your reasons at the time for making that choice but God forgives you and He loves you regardless and if He can surely you can forgive yourself too.
Turn your hurt, regret, pain and condemnation into positive energy by helping other young women make the right decisions. You all are still so young, this is not the end of your life, its the end of a chapter of mistakes, bad decisions and regrets... continue to the end, it can be a happy ending.
Much Love,
Kumarie
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I want to encourage you and bernardette.x ... to forgive yourselves. You'll had your reasons at the time for making that choice but God forgives you and He loves you regardless and if He can surely you can forgive yourself too.
Turn your hurt, regret, pain and condemnation into positive energy by helping other young women make the right decisions. You all are still so young, this is not the end of your life, its the end of a chapter of mistakes, bad decisions and regrets... continue to the end, it can be a happy ending.
Much Love,
Kumarie
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